Have you ever seen the movie, “It’s A Wonderful Life?” I’m guessing most of us have with the exception of a few.
In the 1946 movie “It’s A Wonderful Life,” George Bailey played by James Stewart, wishes he had never been born. An angel (Henry Travers) is sent to earth to make George’s wish come true. It is then that George starts to realize how many lives he has changed and impacted, and how they would be different if he was never there.
In the hustle and bustle of our daily lives we’re often too busy to take time out to help someone, smile at someone, share our time with someone, or even be courteous. We’ve all been thoughtful, and also had bad days, only to take it out on someone we love, or a total stranger. But, have you ever stopped to consider the impact this has on someone? Unless you’re told or shown you may not be aware of it, as in “It’s A Wonderful Life.”
As you know I teach culinary classes throughout St Louis, Missouri, in public venues, non-profit organizations and the homes of my clients. I frequently teach at a cancer organization here in town that offers a variety of classes to cancer survivors. It’s an incredible facility and one I feel proud to be affiliated with. It was during one of my classes there, that I learned a lifelong lesson.
After my class, a student who I’ll call Sarah, walked up to me with hope and sadness in her eyes, and said, “This was the best 2 hours I have had in months.” It was just what she needed to get her mind off her problems. Sarah had cancer, was going through treatments, plus as a result had suffered multiple complications from the cancer, and treatments. Her life felt unbearable – yet during the 2 hours of my cooking class she totally escaped and forgot about them. She felt at ease talking with me in class, and said the entire experience was fun, relaxing, and rejuvenating. Sarah couldn’t thank me enough.
When I got into my car that evening after class I sat there and cried. I cried for so many reasons:
For those of us who have been fortunate to have good health and happiness, have you ever stopped to think of all the little things you might complain about? Why do we sweat the small stuff when there are so many bigger things in this world to be concerned with?
Whether you operate a large business, small business, a sole proprietor, or for that matter in your everyday life – remember to treat others how you would expect others to treat you. How we behave has a direct effect on those we interact with.
Sarah’s comment had a huge impact on my life/business, and opened my eyes, a fact she’s probably unaware of herself.
Think about it! What impact have you had on someone else’s life, and how have they yours? Chances are neither of you truly has a clue.
Just like George Bailey in “It’s A Wonderful Life” I too discovered the effect my actions had on someone. While I thought nothing of what I was doing or teaching, I realized from Sarah that every little action I do, creates a reaction. Don’t forget, whether in business or in life, think before you act – while we may never know how another perceives us, I feel confident we’d hope it to be positive!
A recipe that Sarah enjoyed in my class and couldn’t wait to try when she got home was this Whole Roasted Salmon that I prepared. She has since made it for her family and they enjoyed it too. I thought I would share it with you as well.
We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give. ~ Winston Churchill
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